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If You Have Hurt Your Sibling, or You Think Maybe You Did, or They Said You Hurt Them
You are not alone. Start here for help, healing, & hope after harmful sexual behavior.
So glad you came here. You have taken a big step in courage just to search and find this site. You are willing to examine yourself, to face things in yourself, to ask questions about yourself that few people ever even try to face.
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The following resources offer safe places to explore any questions or feelings about what you have done and where you stand now. They are supportive and respectful of people who have caused sexual harm at any point in life, as well as those who have experienced harm. They understand that a lot of people have some of both in their past. They understand that sometimes it's not easy to tell what really happened and who hurt who.
Safe Spaces for Adults
*This is a moderated, private support board for those who are living life under the possibility or the actuality of being a registered sex offender, and their families and supporters. It is for those who want to live a positive and clean life despite the threat or weight of this stigmatizing label and the restrictions that come with it.
Listen
In this Siblings Too podcast with Nancy Morris, "Adam" tells his story: how his abusive behavior toward his sister as a young teen has affected her life, his life, their family, and how he has been able to face what he did and have hope for the future.
Dear Stop It Now! Webinar: "Am I an abuser because of my sexual behaviors as a kid?"
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SSTA 2026 Conference: The Power of Shared Voices
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Hosted by 5WAVES and Thriving Survivors
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First conference on US soil dedicated solely and specifically to sibling sexual trauma and abuse.
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Led and planned by survivors, parents, and others with lived experience
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Focus on healing and community
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More information, registration, invitation to submit a proposal to present (due 1 October 2025): www.thrivingsurvivors.co.uk/ssta2026
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Email conference@5waves.org to ask about a lived experience discount code.
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Coming 23-24 June, 2026 to Long Beach, Long Island, NY
(accessible from downtown NYC by rail, from NYC airports by taxi)
Feedback from survivors attending the Thriving Survivors' 2024 Conference, first in Scotland to focus on sibling sexual trauma and abuse:
“I realized this would be the first time in my life where I didn’t have to hide who I really am.”
“Listening to Ashley’s speech at the start of the day nearly broke me… I’ve never heard anyone speak about it and mirror my exact feelings in that way.”