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Porn
Internet porn is believed to currently be a major risk factor contributing to Sibling Sexual Trauma. This is supported mainly by anecdotal evidence from parents and practitioners, as research on youth raised on smartphone-accessible porn lags behind current behavior and risks.
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It may be helpful to think of porn like alcohol. An adult who is not addicted can enjoy it when used in a responsible way. But it’s definitely not for children, and it carries the risk of addiction and unintended consequences for adults.
WhatsOK.org answers FAQ's for young people about online sexual content, porn, sexting, and more.
“Many youthful offenders have a problematic relationship with pornography…in these cases, pornography has led to a shaping of sexually abusive fantasies and a desire to carry out these acts on siblings. In the absence of well-developed decision-making skills, and in the face of heightened sexual arousal, adolescents may decide to act out what they have seen on their computer screens.”
--Brad Watts, LPC, CSOPT in Sibling Sexual Abuse: A Guide for Confronting America's Silent Epidemic, 2021​
Listen: The Pat Kenney Show hosts Christiane Sanderson, "Is early exposure to porn resulting in more cases of sibling sexual assault?" (16 minutes)
Facts About Porn
​​​​Porn is closely connected to child sexual exploitation; It is impossible to know whether images viewed online were consensual and whether they depict either a child or someone who has been exploited since childhood.
Porn exposure starts early: Children with a smartphone are likely to encounter porn, intentionally or not.
Internet Porn is more accessible, more extreme, more addictive–and very difficult for parents to block.
Porn portrays unrealistic sex: more violence, less consent, no relational context, unrealistic body images.
Porn hijacks the body’s natural sexuality: Men are biologically wired to be visually aroused. Internet porn offers a new, intensely arousing image at each click, swipe, or tap that delivers a flood of naturally occurring but addictive brain chemicals.
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Porn addiction is real: and adolescent brains are especially susceptible.
Porn addiction increases the risk of social isolation and relational difficulties.
Porn is used as a way to groom children for further sexual abuse. Intentionally showing a child porn is actually considered a form of child sexual abuse.
Porn use can lead the user to Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM, formerly called child pornography, without any clear boundary or warning, and with severe and lifelong legal consequences.
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Venn diagram showing overlap of sexually violent acts in pornography and HSB, from UK Children's Commissioner Report, 2023: Evidence on Pornography's Influence on HSB Among Children
"Pornography has become a pressing violence prevention issue. As a dominant form of sexuality education, it shapes young people's sexual understandings and experiences, often with serious consequences for their ability to engage in safe, respectful, and consensual relationships. Concerns are growing globally about pornography's role in fostering harmful sexual behaviours."
Maree Crabb, It's Time We Talked ​​​​​​​
Additional Resources
For You
Your Brain on Porn book, database, tools for rebooting and recovery
Fightthenewdrug.org Documentaries, Articles, Tools on protecting youthful brains from porn, created by adolescents recovering from harmful sexual behavior
Consider Before Consuming podcast
From Your Brain on Porn: Recovery from porn addiction is possible through Rebooting
Covenant Eyes accountability software and guidance
Interview with Billie Eilish: Viewing Porn at Age 11 ‘Destroyed’ Her Brain
​​For Parents
Good Pictures Bad Pictures book series for ages 3 and up from Defend Young Minds
Brain Defense digital safety curriculum from Defend Young Minds
Protect Young Eyes: Start here for a tech-ready home, 12 Ingenious iOS Hacks (and how to beat them)
Covenant Eyes accountability software and guidance